Thursday, May 6, 2010

A Calling ... not new to me ... but new lessons to learn.

So once again, I am the Primary President. I absolutely loved it before and I know I will love it again. I mean, let's be honest: the Primary is the best organization in the church. Not to disrespect the others, nor to incite competitiveness within the church; but let's be honest: the Primary is the best. Here is why:

Children are children. They are essentially the same all over the world. They can be both crazy and innocent, reverent and funny. The children aren't answering questions because they are trying to impress anybody. They tell the truth. They will raise their hands and tell you that their mom yelled at them or they didn't have Family Home Evening or they hit their sister. They are unpretentious, honest, without guile. If Christ came to visit, he would spend his time with the children.

The programs and lessons in Primary are so universal, that the lessons and plans and gospel principles are all laid out in their basic pure form. All you have to do is study them, prepare and testify. Sing the songs of the gospel principles. Follow the program. Follow the handbook. Follow the Brethren. The closer you follow, the better results you get. I love how organized the Primary is. You can actually see the results, right here, right now.

The Primary prepares children for baptism. This is the most important ordinance. Everything else adds to this, but this is the first and most celebrated. It is a humbling opportunity to prepare young children for this ordinance. The parents hold the ultimate responsibility, but the primary teaches the children everything they need to know to be ready.

The Primary prepares children for the Priesthood and for Young Womens. Show me a young boy or girl who has successfully completed their Faith in God goals, and has been active in scouting and activity days, and I will show you someone who is well on their way to honoring their Priesthood and womanhood. It is so critical and important that they are excited about going into the youth organizations.

Primary is an intense two hours on Sunday. Some days you are actually sweating like you just worked out. But you are essentially finished. You have a little planning, maybe a presidency meeting, a visit to make sure scouts and activity days are going smoothly, etc. But that is pretty much all the time you will spend. In Young Womens there are meetings and firesides, and activities, and stake activities, and beach trips, and meetings, and times when you need to be there for the girls one-on-one. It is exhausting, worthwhile to be sure, but extremely time consuming. In Relief Society, you may get a call at any time, day or night that someone needs you. Emergencies are 24-7. People are unemployed, being foreclosed on, and dealing with stresses. People get sick, have babies, and pass away. Families need a meal, a ride, a food order. Sisters need a hand to hold, a shoulder to cry on, an understanding ear. It is exhausting, worthwhile to be sure, but time consuming. It was a supreme privilege to hold the hand as a sister received the news that she had terminal cancer and be able to testify to her of the Atonement and resurrection. I will never forget that moment. In YW and RS, you deal with big girl problems. In Primary, you deal with clay. In YW that clay is almost hard. In RS, it has already been fired. It is a great responsibility with great rewards.

In Primary, I laugh and cry. I nurture and teach. I testify and set an example. With teens and adults you get "Sunday School" answers to questions. Children say the most amazing things.

It is no wonder, that when we moved here, I prayed for the calling of Primary Teacher. A few weeks ago, I felt a president calling was on it's way. A couple more signs verified that it was coming. I prayed to know for sure. That afternoon the bishop asked us to come in the following night. I went knowing it was for a Presidency. If I had pondered a little more, I probably would have figured it out. The bishop extended the calling and I requested to let me finish the Savior of the World production. He gladly agreed. I finished the last performance, packed up the last of the prop boxes and went to bed for a restful sleep. Thirteen hours later I was in the middle of busyness again.

I am thrilled with my counselors. I have amazing people on my board, many of them have been Primary Presidents before. I love my bishopric. I love the children. I love Primary.

10 comments:

D3AB said...

Congrats! It is the best calling and you will do so great!

Chauna said...

Wow Lisa...that was great! I love how you are so good at putting feelings into words! I felt all those things when I was called as Primary President but all I could say was "Wow...really?" People ask me how the new calling is going and I say "Good." That's about all I can manage to come up with :-) I too LOVE Primary and it IS the best place in the Church! It really struck me (as a "new" President having never been one before) how as a Presidency member, you care about the children, love them, and enjoy the calling, but the minute I was set apart as President over all those little children, teachers, and other presidency members, it was like the feelings of love and protection just became this overwhelming every minute of every day type feeling! It's amazing and I am loving it! Good Luck and Congrats on getting the best calling in the Church! Hee hee!!

Megan Walker said...

That was an *adorable* post Lisa! And congratulations on your new calling! Congrats to you AND everyone in Primary because they are all in for such a treat to have you as their president :)

I loved all the things you said you loved about Primary - how true, how true. You articulated it in comparison with the other organizations just perfectly. And isn't it so wonderful how the Lord knows just where we need to be :)

Except now I'm exhausted because I just got called to Young Womens - LOL :D

Audry said...

isn't great! I love Primary too, which is good because I just got called to be 2nd counselor in our ward. 2nd time severing in it. I am reminded just how sweet these little spirits are.

Hoskins Family said...

Your post is exactly why I said, It's not you that needs to learn...it's the kids that NEED you! You are amazing!

Rachelle@atticgals.blogspot.com said...

Congratulations! What would we do without these new callings to keep us busy and to keep us learning the lessons the Lord has for us? Good luck!

Lisa P said...

As usual, beautifully and said--spirit talking to spirit.

Camille said...

I love your posts!!
Congrats! :D

Amy said...

Awesome, I love Primary too! I love your "clay" theroy, its spot on. You will do awesome!

Lillie said...

Wow--- I am SOLD. I have dreaded the idea of ever being in the primary presidency. I think it's just so unknown to me still…. so long ago for myself and so new for Sophia I don't feel like we fit in yet. And I do a horrible job at that primary voice so many women do so well… I still get nervous like they're grown-ups which is just uncomfortable for everyone.

I was just called to be Jeanie Dean's first counselor in our new YW presidency and I've never felt so excited about a calling, or so at home. Callings have been on my mind---- so I LOVED reading this. And now I feel this little bit of relief like I can cross one more calling off my "I will cry every Sunday on my way to church if I get this calling"- list.

They're so lucky to have you super-lady.